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I often see the people around so live hard
Posted on Mar. 5, 2009 at 07:22 (Subscribe)
Appendix ￠?: Dispel Reduce pressure, it's not at all that easy. The person working hard, there is this question.
If a present one a group of idlers today, we do not probe into this question. If everybody is so unoccupied as to have nothing to do, we will probe into another question: How to come out of boring China? I will advise you to do the public servise, do environmental protection.
Look, but so many good methods that said just now, but can not solve the problem.
Everybody is the person working in Sina Web, how news extends in all direction, if really there is any good method, can know, can hear. Someone wants to hide from the staff on Sina, that is Arabian Nights.
Then, we want to solve this problem down, this is that I explore life in decades too, go ahead step by step, try to find out by oneself. Here includes me to psychological exploration and study, include exploration and study of the experience in life, also include to the exploration of different the successful personage's experience at all times and in all lands and study.
Preceding we see, let you pay attention to the health, it's not at all that easy.
Let you reduce pressure, you should do in many things.
You are at enormous pressure and conflict.
--Are there outlets?
I think, to the answer of this question, if you understand, understand, there are incomes in all one's life.
First, there is a large amount of extraneous expense in life
My concept is very simple, the outlet lies in reducing the extraneous expense.
Someone will ask, does our expenditure have an extra one is it possible that?
I tell everybody, all young people, including you, everybody not only has extraneous expense, and extraordinary a large amount of. More than 1/3 of the expenditure of common people is all extra.
Don't think this sentence can be imagined. Much expenditure of people's is extra, and surplus, is unnecessary. Because does not know, are pay there, is wasting there by oneself, consume there, is tormenting there oneself. Do not understand this, does not understand that an opportunity bursts on from here, can't free in the body and contradiction of working forever.
We want to go out of this dead office.
Then, what calls the essential expenditure, the expenditure in volume?
Everybody works, whether want the hard work? Work hard. Does it have brain work to write the novel? Must move. Do to the editor and have brain work? Must move. This kind of work is essential work. Everybody goes to work, no matter drive and take the car by bike, must spend time, must consume certain physical power, this is essential expenditure.
However, these should pay expenditure that work needs, will be with a lot of extraneous expense.
Cite a very simple example, go to work by bus, block up on the road. When you had no option, can only sit in the car ing. If the psychology is good at this moment, will let nature take its course, it delayed your time on the car to stop up, but there are certain limits to the consumption of energy. But if you are very anxious at this moment, fidgety in the car, exert all one's effort and complain about oneself unluckily, and so on, consumption of you sit at car letting nature take its course, reaching unit people to be much bigger than that piece.
Realize the slight place here, profound all here.
You sit at car scolding one No. getting angry to all the way, come the unit, may feel what oneself wasted to produce noed, in fact you have wasted quite a lot of physical power.
If I meet this kind of situation by bus, I may close the eyes for rest, because there are no other things to choose, I let nature take its course. In this way, after getting to the unit, my energy have one more yuan than you. Will come down in one day, you lose several yuan fewer, I have another more several yuan, this difference is obvious.
Give an example again, you make a thing liked oneself today such as you like playing mahjong, if meet the partner finding each other congenial, you hit for one all night, get in daybreak of five six and narrow for a moment on the sofa, do not think too hard either.
However, also playing mahjong, you and several persons not extremely pleasing to the eye sit together, you have to accompany them for a certain reason, have to deal with this scene, the friends believe, perhaps two three circles come down, you have been already very tired, and know the shoulder and tingle the neck aches.
Must not look down upon these examples.
Play mahjong regard job as, same thing, you would rather, do until the daybreak, just aslant on the sofa at five six to think, you are not arduous. However, you are unwilling, two three circles come down, your whole face works hard.
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