it is unnecessary to go beyond certain limit
Posted on Mar. 5, 2009 at 07:22 (Subscribe)
How to avoid these arduously, there should be comprehensibility, there should be methods.
You chat with a person, even discuss project cooperation, it can be rest to chat, it may be the work too, if you are better to this talk psychology, the other side is that you are more agree in other words, you talk about for a long time not thinking hard.
A talk has not begun yet when there can be, you have been already arduous, because is unwilling.
A lot of people's energy is all taken by the extraneous expense.
Including doing house work, including the dinner party between relatives and friends, every perfectly willing one, it is extremely tired that you finish, even more tired than to go to work.
Why? The extraneous expense is too large.
Whether one is clever, lie in minimizing one's own extraneous expense.
Please think, if you once had much extraneous expense, you deducted it, energy is one on being much. You were only the strength very much originally, getting rich 20 points of strength by now. These 20 points of strength can have a rest, can go to do exercises, can also do more work slightly. Look, we have a development space in work and two healthy fields.
Appendix ¢?: Dispel 12 kinds of extraneous expense (3)
Since the extraneous expense exist in the life and work, then, where is the extraneous expense? How to go to find it? How to dispel it? This is that we went out of an important prerequisite factors of different existence pressure predicaments.
This is the first question that I speak.
Second, unnecessary anxiety and trouble form the main part of extraneous expense
Second, what is our extraneous expense?
The majority of our extraneous expense is formed by unnecessary, surplus trouble and anxiety.
Speaking from the psychology, any mood is not totally unnecessary. No matter like, sad, frightened, angry, anxious the primary emotions, and various variation mood which they derive out, is essential to a certain extent.
Is it sad and totally unnecessary for you to say? It is essential. You have lost relatives, the sadness is to the relative's commemoration, and the behavior of a kind of emotion too. You lose reputation to be status very much painful, the agony lets you remember experience and lesson. The grief can also be turned into strength, call and turn grief into strength.
So, the essential sadness is essential.
Angry? It is essential too. It is a kind of mood that your purpose and interests produce when being hindered to be angry. The angry strength that can arouse you overcomes rivals, including detering your rival.
So, certain anger is essential.
Where is the fear? If does not know the traffic accident can cause the death, one is not frightened at all to the traffic accident, there is no safe consciousness. The little rabbit has seen foxes are not frightened, has been eaten up by the fox.
So, the essential fear is essential.
Likewise, essential anxiety is essential too. A rabbit hides in the nest, will be a little anxious soon to keeping the fox in the entrance to a cave. Not anxious at all, it will be eaten up by the fox soon.
Then, people's mood is essential within the specific limits.
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